A Toast to the Old You!
- Dec 30, 2022
- 2 min read
It’s that time of year again, “New Year, New Me!” Whether you want to try to quit a vice, or exercise more or learn to set healthy boundaries, New Year’s Resolutions can be a chance to forgive, to forget and rejuvenate. It can be a chance to put the past behind and start fresh.
By the time the third week of January comes around, which can feel like an eternity itself, you’ve more than likely given up. Not because your intentions weren’t there, but more often than not, the resolutions were either excessively difficult, so they quickly became unreachable, or they were too easy and you became quickly bored with them. This has been my experience.
From someone who was a resolution maker (and breaker), New Year’s Resolutions don’t have to be this way. They don’t need to weigh us down with guilt for not being able to accomplish something that is commonly based on negative emotions: things about yourself you aren't satisfied with or happy about. New Year does not have to mean, New Me! You are enough!
In the words of another:
“If you feel inspired to use the new year to help you reset or change habits: great. And yet – The old you has survived every terrible day, every hard thing, every awful circumstance, and every heartbreak you’ve ever felt. The OLD YOU is a FIGHTER and that’s worth celebrating.” – Emily McDowell
Here are 10 Alternatives to New Year’s Resolutions:
Create a bucket list for the year
Do a 4-day, 10-day or 30-day challenge or establish a new goal each month
Create a list of things you are looking forward to
Create a list of what you would like to let go of or leave behind, then rip it up or burn it at the beach
Pick one word, quality, mantra, or theme to focus on for the year
Choose one project to do
Make an evening out pf it! For example, have a bath, light a candle, journal, etc… whatever feels good for you
Pick one area of your life to give some extra love to
Write a personal mission statement or a letter to your future self
Track your healthy habits. What are you already doing?
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Cheers to the old you! It’s always inspiring to read reflections like this—where growth, gratitude, and personal evolution take center stage. Letting go of past habits or limitations is no small feat, and celebrating that transformation is absolutely worth raising a glass to. It kind of reminds me of my academic journey—there was a time I used to struggle alone, thinking I had to figure everything out myself. That changed when I discovered engineering assignment help by MyAssignmentHelp. Just like saying goodbye to the old version of yourself, I left behind the stress and confusion and embraced support that actually made a difference. Sometimes, growth starts by simply accepting that it’s okay to ask for help—and that’s a toast-worthy move…
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